I’m married and straight but something happen that made me question the straight part?
Friday, May 22nd, 2009 at
8:50 pm
confusedandsearching asked:
L& #39; another evening, my wife known as qu& #39; she has something, she wants to test with me. Then, it gives to me a BJ and it to begin friction between my right of balls and l& #39; anus. I n& #39; ever felt something like that. J& #39; had l& #39; the most intense orgasm never. She said qu& #39; she était to rub the spot G male and he said the même place that the merry men touché when they have sexual relations together. J& #39; have demandé during années if I am homosexual because many other reasons, and now I reçois something like that. Am I gay? . Eh well many reasons that j& #39; have my sexualité in question are the following ones: 1) I find the men attracting. 2) I rêve d& #39; to have sexual relations on the men. 3) Before j& #39; have été mariée, j& #39; had some meetings with men. Oral and of kisses. J& #39; always was afraid and n& #39;
L& #39; another evening, my wife known as qu& #39; she has something, she wants to test with me. Then, it gives to me a BJ and it to begin friction between my right of balls and l& #39; anus. I n& #39; ever felt something like that. J& #39; had l& #39; the most intense orgasm never. She said qu& #39; she était to rub the spot G male and he said the même place that the merry men touché when they have sexual relations together. J& #39; have demandé during années if I am homosexual because many other reasons, and now I reçois something like that. Am I gay? . Eh well many reasons that j& #39; have my sexualité in question are the following ones: 1) I find the men attracting. 2) I rêve d& #39; to have sexual relations on the men. 3) Before j& #39; have été mariée, j& #39; had some meetings with men. Oral and of kisses. J& #39; always was afraid and n& #39;
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no.
the way in which you derive physical pleasure, and the pleasuer centers on the body that you discover, have NOTHING to do with sexual orientation who which gender you are attracted to.
you and your wife discovered an area on your body that is particularly sensitive. great! you’re still attracted to her, though, and i’m guessing you are still attracted to other women.
i’m gay and I’m not going to tell you that you are. (so much for the people that try to say that gays are always trying to convert others… LOL!)
just because you have found a pleasure center somewhere on your body that you didn’t know about, or that you view as “unusual” doesn’t mean that you suddenly crave another man’s penis or that you want to make out with guys…
guys, straight and gay, find erogenous zones ALL OVER their bodies. some straight guys even like to have their wives or girlfriends wear a strap-on and “do them” anally! yep, that’s right. and they’re still straight. they’ve just discovered that it’s pleasurable. it does NOT mean that they are homosexual or physically attracted to guys. it only means that they have chilled out…that they are not constrained by ridiculous religious nonsense…and that they have become creative, curious and explorative with their own bodies and, with their chosen opposite-sex partner, and they have decided to enjoy their bodies.
throw away that religious crap, and the guilt, and the victorian BS attitudes, and enjoy life.
NOW…about those “numerous other reasons” that you have thought you were gay…? all of my comments above are based on not knowing what your “numerous other reasons” are.
and, do me one more favor. IGNORE any Bible-BS that I guarantee will show up below my answer. you cannot escape those hateful christian morons…
Just because YOUR WIFE found a nice spot on your body, that means you have to run to men?
but since you say you were always wondering abot it then you might be gay, why waste this poor womans time?
Not based on the information you have provided. I would be curious to hear what the “numerous other reasons” are though!
you are confused, read romans 1 please, it is an abomination to God, unnatural affections
No you’re not gay. And your wife is misinformed. She was playing with your “taint”. The gay GSpot is the prostate, which can be found up and inside the anus in the same general direction as the “taint”. Many men, gay and straight, like the sensation of a prostate massage (by fingers or other objects), especially since the prostate is one of the areas that contracts during ejaculation.
No you’re not gay. You’re enjoying the natural pleasures that you are supposed to enjoy between you and your wife. You are very heterosexual, very normal, if you will. So relax, enjoy the relationship with your wife and learn to please her as adequately. It makes for a great marriage.
Dude are you 13??? What kind of question is that.. You are old enough to be married, but you dont know your own body or sexual preference yet? YIKES you must be Mormon. Either that or homophobic
no but if u are cute lets fuck
NO, unless you are attracted to other men. G-spots are just sensitive areas that turn you on and they differ with each person.
Haha. Someone discovered something new. Hey man, your wife is misinformed. And you, obviously have not thoroughly explored your body…till now. We all have played with ourselves. Though, some slightly more than others. There are lots of ways for a guy to have intense orgasms. Anyway, the media and the gay community is always perpetrating that a man who dresses well, who’s too good looking and goes to the gym is gay. And that such men should stop pretending and come out. This hype causes these type of men to question themselves with questions like “I like it when I/my gf/my wife plays with my anus so am I gay?” or “I do envy other males with better physique than mine so am I gay?”…etc. This is overblown. And it doubles as a strategy to confuse and turn the fashion conscious, good looking, gym going men, gay. Yes it works. There men who are “recruited” gays. Truth is there’s always a reason a man becomes gay. No one is born gay. Anyway the percentage of hetero men is higher than our homo counterparts. Whatever it is, the numerous other reasons n questions that you have, can only be answered by yourself. Some men do experience this phase of self questioning. Some don’t. If you like men, lust after men, wanna have sex with men, wanna develop relationships with men or marry or live together. Then you are gay. If you don’t, then you’re not. Having questions doesn’t make you gay. Looking at other guys doesn’t make you gay. The decisions and choices do. Simple.
Well now that you’ve added the details, its certainly more complicated. ok so you’ve probably had a sort of a gay lifestyle back then. But think of the reality, which is now. Are you happy with your wife and marriage? What about children? do you have children? Do you love your wife? why did you marry her in the first place? think of all the moments that both of you shared. If its all good. Then ending the marriage would destroy her and your children (if you have any). Not ending the marriage, will mean that you’re not being honest to your wife and yourself. Either way someone will get hut. It boils down to you. Yes, its really difficult. Think about it and weigh the situations. You could talk to your wife about the problem, maybe with a counsellor too. I wish you good luck.
I THINK U MIGHT JUST BE CONFUSED
Well, maybe if you have already had feelings of being gay, you should think this through some more. But her touching on your prostate doesn’t mean your gay, it just means you liked the pleasure. Best of luck to you!
Watch Brokeback Mountain and you will know?
You think you might be gay because your wife massaged your taint? No, that doesn’t make you gay. Wanting to have sex with a man makes you gay.
No, you are not gay because of this, similar has happened to me, even a dildo inside me, felt good actually, but I don’t see myself like a gay or bi because of that, it belongs to the sex play